Part of being a dance leader is about leading and safeguarding the participants in their Dance events. A purpose of the Dances, according to Murshid SAM, is to increase joy. Any behaviors, comments or attitudes in a circle or event that diminish safety and joy to the circle and the individuals in the circle are antithetical.
Dance leaders are responsible for the circle. That doesn’t mean walking a patrol; yet it does mean being attuned both to the individual participants and the circle as a whole. In order for us to expand our consciousness and free ourselves from the restrictions of personality and social conditioning, we want to be safe and free! If anyone’s behavior encroaches on that feeling of freedom and safety, that needs to be addressed.
Each individual, leader, circle and situation is unique. The leader has to be willing to be attentive, to inquire if there are warning signals, and to take necessary action if required. Action can include outlining guidelines, commentary, and sometimes intervention.
The way dance leaders maintain this safety is up to them, and each dance leader (or dance team) will handle delicate or difficult situations in their own way, but here are some suggestions:
1. Dance leaders might want to let participants know that they are expected to be sensitive to each other’s boundaries while at the same time responsible for setting and maintaining their own boundaries.
2. Sometimes, dance leaders may feel the need to let participants know exactly what behavior is expected and accepted in the categories of sexual misconduct, drug and alcohol use, provocation, verbal aggression, and power dynamics.
3. During DUP events, leaders might want to make known to the participants a person or team (themselves or someone they designate) that is available to those who need physical, emotional, or spiritual support. Sometimes the amount of energy generated in a dance awakens energies that are not always easy to integrate. There may also be times when someone feels challenged by something that has happened in the event. They should know that there is someone they can talk to. Dance leaders may want to make available a telephone number and email of someone local, as well as the contact information for the Chairs of the Ethics Council and the Guidance Council. They also might want to make this document available.